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How Much Makeup Is Too Much for Your Teen?
By Rachel Weingarten
Get professional help.
If you haven't worn makeup since your wedding, book a mother-daughter makeover with a makeup artist. Don't just choose the first makeup counter that you pass, since cosmetic counter makeup artists are notorious for being heavy handed and commission driven.
Take an hour or so and scout out the mall to find a more teen-friendly brand. Look at the makeup artists. Do they look like they'd need a blowtorch to remove their foundation? If they do, move on to the next counter. Arm yourself with photos of looks that you feel are appropriate for your daughter, as well as a defined budget.
Explain to the makeup artist that you would like for your daughter to learn makeup basics, and that you are not interested in a heavily made up look. Ask the makeup artist to explain to you step by step the way that the makeup is applied. Explain to your daughter that she may choose two items used in the makeover, and that you'll supplement the rest with drugstore items. Turn makeup into a bonding ritual that the two of you can look forward to.
Remember that you've been applying makeup for half your life, but it's all brand new for your teen. Your daughter is trying on different personas and trying to discover the woman that she will become. Makeup is fun, fantasy and a bit magical – just like your daughter's teenage years.