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What Do We Do Now?
How to Survive a Spouse's Job Loss
By Teri Brown
(Femme Osage Publishing, 2003), believes the emotional toll of a job loss is almost as devastating as the financial. 
"Job loss can destroy or strengthen a marriage," says Klippel. "Husbands and wives will experience swinging emotions, usually at different times. Husbands who are out of work need reassurance, respect and space from their wives. They need time to grieve the loss of their job, title, routine and relationships. One of their deepest fears is that their wife will leave them if they don't have a job."
Klippel says that the stay-at-home spouse has important needs at this time as well. They need the comfort and security of knowing that the other is doing everything possible to return to work. They stay-at-home spouse may also be under stress to bring in additional income.
The best way to survive a job loss is open communication. Constantly reassure one another by keeping the other informed of each stage of the job search. Let each other know that you love one another even without jobs. Such reassurance will build confidence and help the job seeker interview well. The spouse who has lost the job can help by taking on as many duties around the house as possible and thanking their partner for their love and support.
"A completed load of laundry or dinner on the table are a simple yet powerful way a man can respect, honor and reassure his wife while she is waiting for him to find work," says Klippel.
Children today are often very in tune with the emotional barometer of their home and will sense right away right away that Mom and Dad are worried and upset about something. Even if parents try to hide the job loss, children may pick up on the tension in the home.