Rick March’s Tips for New Single Parents

“A new single parent must establish a bond and trust with their child, and right away,” says March. “Don't try to be his best friend, and don't ever lie – and don't ever accept anything but the truth, and show your trust in the child. This is a kid who needs stability and sincerity on an emergency basis, and as a parent you MUST be willing to make him or her the center of your universe for a time. As they feel the honesty of your love, it will be reflected in their behavior. If you can't do it, then seek out therapy. There is no alternative and there is a very short window of trust. It can be very draining for a new single parent, but the consequences of doing a half job can be horrible. There are too many options for kids these days, and bad choices are often easier. So far Paul has not made any, and I hope he won't.”