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Giving Thanks – Now More than Ever

By Elisa Ast All

"Mommy, what does Thanksgiving actually mean?" my son asked me after I told him that there's more to this special day than eating turkey and pumpkin pie. It's a good question, since the true meaning of Thanksgiving can get lost amidst frantic trips to the grocery store for sweet potatoes, stuffing and other feast fixings. We may spend more of our time worrying about the presentation of the event rather than the significance of it.

In its simplest form, Thanksgiving means giving thanks. And this year, more than ever, giving thanks is a necessity. While some people may think the tragic events we have experienced in the last two months are cause to feel bitter and angry, the opposite is true. We, as parents and as Americans, have so much for which to be thankful.

The Big Picture: We live in a magnificent country. How fortunate we are to be able to raise our children in a place that values them for who they are and allows them to become whatever they want to be. This is a place and time where the only limitations come from within each person's own mind; if you free yourself to believe you can do it – you will do it. Help your children believe that, then give thanks to our founding fathers for their vision and resolve. Tell your kids why you smile when you see the American flag, then give thanks to Betsy Ross for her artistry and dedication. Explain to your children that they should believe in heroes, then give thanks to New York City's firefighters and police officers, and the passengers of United Airlines flight 93 for their courage and sacrifice. Show your kids the beauty of the world around them, then give thanks for life itself.

The Individual Picture: Look inside yourself to see what you are thankful for. There may be many things in your life for which you are grateful, or just one. It can be as big as your house or as small as a child's hug after a hard day of work. Whatever it is, cherish it. Hold it close to your heart on Thanksgiving day, and always.

I give thanks for my son, Christian. His curiosity and desire to learn are inspiring, and watching him grow into a little man has changed me. Thank you, CJ.

I am so thankful for my daughter Cassandra. Her smile lights up a room, and her sense of humor reverberates throughout our family. Thank you, Cassie.

I give thanks for my daughter Julianna. Her nurturing nature and artistic expression leave me in awe, and being her mother humbles me. Thank you, Jules.

I am thankful for my husband, Alvin. His love and support enable me to be all that my family needs me to be. Thank you, Alvin.

I give thanks for my parents, grandparents, in-laws, the rest of my family and my friends and neighbors. They provide a community base from which our life grows. Thank you, everyone.

Whatever you do on Thanksgiving – whether you prepare a feast for 20 or for one – find some time to reflect on what you cherish. You may find that giving thanks makes you realize what's important in life and sets the course for your family's values.